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The kid blows. What can I do?


Cursing, cursing, crazy words. It doesn't sound nice to the mouth of adults, too, even though we hear similar things from a child's mouth. We see helplessly, and we don't know what to do, why might such a situation occur?

The kid blows. What can I do?

An angelic-looking baby splashes blood in the sandbox, another child sneaks up and tries to turn on. In the midst of a fluttering and chic chic appeal, she puts her in a warmer climate. The parents laugh, the situation is so absurd. But what else can you do besides smiling? Why does our child ask?

Well, where do the crappy words come from?

In preschool age, most of our day is not spent with us. In the sun it is ovis groupmates she talks, plays, and it's no wonder she learns a lot of new stuff. These are some of the words you have heard, but you are not actively using them and, of course, they may be completely unknown. These can be in between nasty words The words about sexual life, body fluids are picked up by children from the street or out of the street, but unfortunately, someone may hear the words in the family day after day. in turn we are eager to follow what we hear, which of course attract the attention of parents. We need to speak here of the stinging words about digestion that are popularly used and repeated by ovis. In such cases, even in the case of other puns, it is only mild but firm to say that you are not nice and to ask our child not to use more. But no punishment is needed, it's just oil for the fire! we invent fantasy words together, which only a narrow family knows the meaning of, will become our own secret language that no one else understands.

Addressing the derailment of aggression?

The hot baking tray gets out of hand, we run after the bus, the driver closes the door in front of our noses. What do we, grown up, do, how do we react? Who's according to his own story, but in general, a complaint goes down smoothly. In fact, when asked, the answer to stress is a form of aggressive derivation. This manifestation is a verb aggressively The appeal can be a place and a time for children and adults alike, as we are aggressive with it. If someone becomes complacent with this manifestation and can release the poison, it can be useful. Of course, it does not matter what words we do all this. If a child sees that in such a situation, we too are fooled by words, he / she does not think he / she is acting poorly in a similar situation. It is a good idea for us to change our behavior and stop using insane words. The richness of the Hungarian language makes it possible for us to insist that no one will leave us. Kids, for example, really like labor and cataclysms: "the cat is chewing it" or "it is a freaked-out rascal angel". But here, too, we can be creative and make our own requests.

Always look for the cause!

What do you do if your child turns to you? The most important is that always look for the causewhat caused this reaction from our child? Many times, kids talk bad and complain because they feel powerless and think when they shout out loud at someone, they regain control of the situation.Of course the other reason might be that they don't have that problem solving ready, which can help us deal with frustration, disappointment, conflict. Let's help our child! We do not want one day to learn to others who do and do not. Let's face a personal example and expect only a little bit of what our children are capable of. If we sometimes have a few nasty things on our minds, let's give birth to our baby. Maybe something to figure out a sanction if any member of the family is contacted by others. Doing push ups, take out the trash, avoid ... essentially teaching our children through a personal example that blasphemy and other people's verbal abuse can cause injury. We regulate not the person, but the behavior!Further articles on the subject:
  • If he speaks fraudulently
  • Are you talking in a nasty way?
  • She's talking