Almost all parents shout at times - when we are stressed, nervous, it is simply to raise our voices. However, shouting up a tool is generally ineffective, even if you feel it.It affects your child when you yell at him (Fotу: iStock) Children are usually scared when they yell at us, sometimes it can even get so dirty. There are parents who, for this very reason, use effective shouting tools to raise the child's attention, to punish them, or simply to express their anger. By the way, shouting is a very useless educational technique The good news, though, is that you can stop shouting and learn new, better-working tools for raising your child.
Scary and poor communicationParents are empowered from the point of view of children: they are twice as tall as them, so they have physical desires, they also give food, a safe home, and love, too. If such a person yells at us, it can be very scary to children. Also, yelling does not work well as a communication technique, and it does seem like it is the first time that children listen to the parent and accept what he or she has. And this is not communication.
This is how the child can react
How can we stop shouting?
- Note that the younger a child is, the less intentional his behavior is - it can stop us from wanting to raise our voice.
- Remember that if you keep shouting when you want to raise your child, he or she will long-term stop telling you that your advice can only be given in a harsh, aggressive voice.
- Instead, use humor to get rid of the child's problem behaviors. Laughter is much more effective than yelling or yelling.
- Let's focus instead on a relaxed discussion. The effect of shouting is that children are often blocked and there is no chance that they really understand what we want to teach them.