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Adulthood can be a problem when it comes to pious lies


Who would have thought that little lies in childhood like "If you don't come with me now, I'll leave you here!" can they have long-term consequences?

Adolescent gracious lies can be a problem in adulthood (Photo: iStock) Sometimes parents need to be upset. "I promise you that the vaccine won't hurt!", "Your nipple will be strong!" And who would blame them for that? After all, parenting is not easy, and sometimes it has to be made a little easier. However, according to a new study made at Nanyang University of Technology in Singapore, children who have been lied to by their parents for smaller things, they will have a harder time adjusting to adulthood, and the adults themselves will be more prone to fьllentйsre, The study also asked 379 Singaporean young adults about whether their parents lied to them, when they were children, how much they can lie to their parents, and how well they are employed. It was finally discovered that those whose parents were oppressed had, to a greater extent, lied to their parents themselves. - These seem to be the kind of lies that can save you time in explaining, when certain things are difficult to explain - said study leader Setoh Peipei, assistant professor at the university. When parents say honesty is the best tactic, but they themselves tell the child a contradictory message. Parents' lies can ultimately erode trust and provide a good basis for a child to follow a similar pattern. According to Peipei, our research suggests that the use of lies in education can have a negative impact. - Parents need to be aware of these following consequences, and consider alternatives to lies such as recognizing the feelings of children, giving them information that they can count on, and solving their problems. the Homepage, the persistent problem with the child, reassure the person. According to the research, it is much more of a problem with lies that are intended to induce certain behaviors in the child rather than smaller, gracious lies. So this can be repeated periodically if there is no other.(VIA)Related links: