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After the birth


Occasionally, when returning from a baby with the baby, it is not the unexpected happiness of the mamma that she expects to be (as stated, implicitly) expected of her.

Most of the time, in this case, they make the mistake that only makes the situation worse: they try to meet every condition.
Of course, it is better to put it this way: the expectation of the environment is so strong that they are pretending to be compliant, struggling, and making them feel worse. It's very hard to say, "No, I don't feel happy now. Most of all, fatigue, insecurity, fear, disappointment, because all the decks I picked up were left on me because I wanted more baby than I expected." Because my grandmother won't leave me in a poke because nobody else asks me: Because I'm, everyone is busy with the baby. "

Spiritual problems

It is not about postpartum depression, it is a much stronger, hormonal change in the body, in the psyche. We only talk about one of the "normal" reactions when mommy does not cry all day, only to become sad when the baby is always shit and shit, even though she has been fed, watered and cleansed. Only when she takes her old clothes or when her husband comes home from work ten minutes later than usual. What can a pregnant mother do if she gets into such a state of mind?
It is certainly helpful to think about what might cause your oppression and what makes you feel better. Some simple wonders without a baby can do wonders. It is also conceivable that once you have a good night's sleep, all your troubles will disappear. Daily sunbathing may solve the problem. Nor is it surprising to find out that she is worried about what she is afraid to say, because she herself laughs.
It is conceivable that the mapping and formulation of possible causes may in themselves lead to significant improvements. Unless that happens, it is easiest for a young mother to share her problems with her husband. They should be the least "afraid", since they know this condition exactly, and more importantly, they can probably state: is the reaction normal or does the patient feel more or less , calm down. For the further development of the relationship, it is important for the young woman to talk to the couple about the problem.In the post-natal period, social relationships are of particular importance. When mom is home all day, it's natural for her to wait for her couple to tell her what her baby has learned, what new things she has produced, how much she has slept, eaten, and so on. In the meantime, you may want to wait for the baby to sit down for the rest of the day and read the new things you don't know all day long. During this period, you did not want to consciously build relationships - nurture old people and make new friends. You can find mom-like-minded moms out on the walk or at a health club, or visit the local baby-mama club at least once.