How can we get along if our child is the victim?Kindergarten bullying: from mooring to fightingSince the beginning of the 2000s, bullying, a megfйlemlнtйs a phenomenon that has become more common, mainly because with the expansion of the online world, this is happening in a new field. Virtually bullying may be more typical of teens, but the exciting currency space in schools, even it can also appear in schools.Bullying does not have an exact Hungarian equivalent, it is most commonly identified with contemporary punishment, school violence, but methodical seclusion, liberation, humiliation, power over other terms Tamba-Liptбk Zita according to a child psychologist. The idea of bullying is that one or more of the children methodically and persistently punishes in some form. "The bullying cow is not a one-off case, nor is it intended for other individuals to have deliberate criminal behavior, but to maintain a maximum of two in each direction," the expert explained.
What does bullying mean in school?
Dangerous if we block itChildren's psychology has also been questioned about how aware children are of bullying for so long and, in their opinion, of nothing in which the environment has a role to play. - If the adults are ignored or overwhelmed, or if the other children present react positively - for example, laughing at the victim - the offender's behavior is reinforced. And so he won't tell you what he's doing is badand in fact, it will do the same every other time - said Zita Tamabs-Liptov. how sensitive it is to the other, why not do it. "It is very important that you talk about your story not just about two, because it also involves those who look at it to the end," the child psychologist called her attention.
Why is a child of this size going to be punished?
If our child is sin?
Community problems need to be addressedAccording to a child psychologist, it is important to bullying not just an individual, but a communal problem, not just the bully and / or the bully, since this is a matter of community, everyone needs the help of adults in this situation.- Ask the teacher how to handle the situation at department / group level. It is also important for an adult to be aware that we tend to think of a child as a conscious behavior that can be a source of excitement for us. this behavior is more a sign of the childthat something is wrong, so you have to approach it accordingly. In addition, it helps prevent children from teaching, as a rule, from a young age they have the right to protect themselvesand the dirt, stools can not be tolerated in any other way.- It is important to deal with any bullying, to help our child to process it, because it can cause serious injuries in the evaluation, evaluation. If you don't do it right, you can define your personal development, your self-image, your self-belief - and how you can solve it in the long run.Related articles in bullying:
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