The moment comes when you have to make rules and set boundaries. Of course, your child, who wants to take control of the world, will fight against the rules. But what happens when you win the fight?
If the child is uneducated
"It is not a great honor to go to a child psychologist," he confesses Mбrta. - For example, the classmates give you a phone number with the added sentence that they might not be there yet. The specialist had to face our son unable to accept the rules, behaves in an unmanageable, tyrannical manner. And that is when our own book began, because we had to say that we were raising our child by following bad principles. In order to feed a crab, not take it out at night, give it a quick wit ... and I can list it. When I got pregnant, I talked a lot about it with my mom, and then I made it clear that I wouldn't want to raise my child according to such prussian principles. And I tried it."It's too liberal," many of my acquaintances said, but there was someone who said, "Your child has grown on your head!" But I didn't mean to do this. Just somehow things went wrong. It was early in the morning, and I thought at thirty, and after a long hiatus, my son conceived. I was pregnant and pregnant was no triumph. First of all, from the cold, from the birth, then from the whole world, but mainly from the people who were eventually born into education. Today, I believe that these unwavering advices have greatly contributed to the loss of the reins. When I was a baby, I picked them up and screamed for relief. It was also a problem that I was breastfeeding so much that I woke up at night to take it in my arms… It was time for me to jump on every note. What do they look like when they filter the sand? Why do you want to teach your toddler, and why do you want to be taught by the trainer? I didn't listen to anyone. With child psychology, I managed to decipher the window and start a different way - which, I admit, is not easy. My son you'll get dhroham if I say no, and can pout for days if things don't go the way they want. But I have to stick to my standpoint, and it will be more tyrannical in itself, and it will be harder to fall short in life.
No one has ever forgiven me
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