It is not an unknown phenomenon for parents to bring a selected plush, cushion or blanket to their child. Is there a healthy boundary to the object's attachment? Tamás Vekerdy child psychologist answers.
Trouble if your child is very attached to an object? Vekerdy answers"Everybody's three-year-old and two-year-old has a nice, worn-out backpack that she carries everywhere (we don't use backgammon anymore) and nyonyуcalled. Unfortunately, my wife and I do not agree on this subject. It gives her the comfort she loves. It is picked up, hauled, packed, and stuffed several times a day he is naturally there during sleep in the bed. I think this conclusion is too much now, and I am afraid that it will slowly damage my personal development. Nimi also adds to the fact that in the evening we have to find the abandoned lodge in the house ... Of course, it is okay for a child to have such a 'companion', but the problem is that he will not be able to resist for a long time (3-4 hours). It takes at least 10 times a day to escape from any stress. I'm afraid you won't learn other stress management techniques, you will be overly addicted to it, and it will be much harder to give up on it than you are right now. , don't think it is addictive, and really, we know more children (the bigger ones) who have similar addictions (pacifier, finger sucking, etc.). My wife hopes to quit on her own, without any outside influence. Of course, I just try to quit it gently, gradually. For a couple of days, we try to put the light in the 'hold' with the child's knowledge that he does not like but accepts and only needs to return it to sleep in the evening. So, I think it would be good to be out of this soon, if you can. It is equally balanced and approx. In 1 week the school would start. Here, too, we don't know what your would be. Put in the light to be there and help with integration? Let's try to get it into the air without it, can you? And in general, let's let it go 'em when you want it, and hope to grow it yourself someday? "
Vekerdy: No need to worry!
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