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Don't ruin it!


Thirty years ago, it was a common practice for children to be treated with sentences that were pelletized. Unfortunately, the practice has not completely gone away, though it is obvious that it does harm both the child and the community.

Don't ruin it!

I don't think there is anyone among today's adults who hasn't met the above sentence. Either in kindergarten, at school, or - perhaps the saddest - at home, from your parents. "When I was a kid, that's the phrase it was completely mundane in schools. Unfortunately, I had to realize - when my own children went to school - that he was still alive. But if anything, it can really make a child's self-confidence, understanding, and understanding "really work," says the psychologist at lelkizona.blog.hu Zsuzsanna Mogyorуsy-Révys.According to a specialist psychologist, fortunately this practice can be said to be general. But how does liberation affect a child? emphasize inadequacy. It is important to focus on the act, but it is very important to never be angry with the child, but to abandon the act. For example, you are not bad, but you are doing bad things - apparently very small, really, really important. " When it comes to sinking into the earth, it is no accident that your well-used tool for exercising power over others is to lose, lose, lose the power, professional psychology.Building punishment: Feedback from a very important person (mother, father, son-in-law, teacher) in childhood, if it is different, but the child cannot fully understand what the cause is. The professional psychologist also points out that liberation it is also a well-known socialization tool at the same time: it transcends the norms of society. Only later, as we grow up, are we able to discover that not the "eyes of others" is the only authority, but the inner, inner moral morality, which is found in the school (in school) it also undermines his social situation. Not only before himself, but before his friends It is possible to apply decontamination so that it is immediately followed by dissolution and reintegration into the community. This is called "forgiven". In this case, forgiveness and acceptance again encourages us not to repeat the behavior of others. The psychologist relieves the pain of the recumbent, the psychologist may revisit the appreciation point. he calls it "stigmatization": it has a persistent effect of not letting go of sin, of constantly communicating wrongdoing. This cнmkйzйs befolyбsolja viselkedйsйt the szemйly identitбsбvб vбlik йs hosszъ tбvon, mйgpedig йpp the normaszegйs irбnyбban.A szakpszicholуgus idйz a 2013 vizsgбlatot which the megszйgyenнtйsnek this kйt tнpusбt йs its hatбsбt vizsgбltбk a kцzцssйgi szбmнtуgйpes jбtйkkal, which was lehetхsйg csalбsra. Whoever is revealed is either punished by the forgiven or stigmatized manner. The results showed that members of the stigma group cheated after being caught and punished, much more than those who were punished in another way. Now, on any basis. The punishment was counterproductive. Instead of defeating it, the psychologist suggested that emphasis should be placed on exemplary, empathic educational methods. We reward you instead of betting (via lelkizona.blog.hu)Bьntetйshez