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Even if you are one of the only families you know, all alone is harder, but not impossible. The first thing you have to do is face the truth: what you have been doing so far is mostly something you have to solve alone.
You left alone?Kirбly Mуnika we have talked with you about how to avoid the common pitfalls of family life. child. Most often, however, the structure of the family changes because of the breakup of the relationship. With the children stays still and usually - in eighty-seven cases - the mother.- The choice not a difficult genre - says the specialist. - You can, of course, do it smartly, in the least you can. But there's no chance we'll completely break the bad days. Couples in the split often consume all their energy by licking their own wounds - and even small children with light eyes behind the door are often never caught. Then the election is over, the passions are over, and so is it New family is born: single, or more like "a cheap baby." Everyone has to find their place in this new system - the one who has stepped out and the one who has left, as the child has the right to both parents. The good thing is, if the kid can see that he still has his dad and his mom, just the rules of the game have changed.
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Single weekdaysThe life of the family is transformed into something of a whirlwind by storms, a new order: everyday life, visibility, how much the father and grandparents worry about the children. What's more, it's countless decision-making responsibility pushing the parent's parenting child.What kind of school should I find? - Your request is typically like that, since it's mostly him who has to bring the little one. But he also lives up to the fact that the little one can't sleep well, peeing again, or getting bumped. It is up to him to decide how long it is normal to ask for help and out, and of course to endure remorse that he is not doing enough to become a "problem" for the child. you have to stand aloneaccident, illness, cracking, and the like when you have to make a quick decision and find solutions. If, instead of asking for help, the mother goes to the very end and chooses the weight, she can't give the little one what she needs most: a secure hold. Luckily, tбmaszt. Many mothers look for like-minded friends who understand their problems and have the opportunity to help or give good advice. Many people move to their parents, or at least have a closer relationship with them, or maybe their brothers and sisters seek help. With a small family behind such a trusted backdrop, the little ones will feel safe and calm about what they are doing - they can play, be sad, cheerful, kind and cheeky - just like any kid.
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What can you do for a kid?- Don't look for support - it will put a lot of pressure on the little ones.
- But you have to give your child support.
- Don't share your sins with her, but don't hide them - adjust to your age, your needs!
- Build your confidence, you have a great need for it now.
- Emphasize that what happened is not their fault!
- Don't scold your ex before the kid, don't tune in!
- If your dad is not in your life, be sure to keep a number of men on the regular - this could be a grandpa, uncle, a good friend.
What can you do for yourself?- Don't lock yourself up!
- Come follow your law!
- Look for mothers in similar situations!
- Ask for help if you don't go alone!
What's good is good!- higher family bullies
- maintain a child - agreed upon by the father in the will. If you do not pay, the state pays the maintenance. To do this, you must submit your application to the regionally competent filing office.
- more sick time in case of a child's illnessUseful titles, "single" readings:
Family and Children's Wellness Center, 1027 Budapest, Szabsz Kбroly u. Second
Tony Parsons: Father and son
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